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TIPS FOR GIVING A MEMORABLE TOAST AT YOUR NEXT EVENT. 1. START WITH THE FACTS. Get details about your toast so you can prepare. Knowing the event type, your audience, how much time you have, and what you want your words to accomplish in advance is key. If you end up speaking on the spot, be mindful of the circumstances and do your best to read the room. An impromptu speech can still be heartfelt with the right intentions and train of thought. 2. KEEP IT SHORT AND SWEET. The longer a toast goes, the more likely you are to lose the focus and attention of your audience. Typically, toasts should only be two to five minutes, with longer ones being okay for special occasions like weddings. Following a standard structure should keep things on time and on track. The recipe for the perfect toast includes: • An introduction that directly addresses the person or event being celebrated and your relationship with them. • A hook that engages your listeners, like a joke or anecdote about the occasion. • A couple of stories that are humorous, nostalgic, or inspiring. • A kind and genuine closing that invites attendees to raise their glasses. 3. BALANCE HUMOR AND SINCERITY. Comedy can sometimes be too hard to follow and distracting. Don't be afraid to lean into your sentimental side and show people why the occasion matters so much to you, with a joke or two sprinkled in. Those sincere emotions are often much easier for an audience to connect with, and they'll have a significance that sticks. 4. PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE. If you know you're going to toast ahead of time, get some practice in. You don't need to have your speech down word-for-word, but jotting down notes or writing it on a notecard or in your phone is a good idea. You can record yourself or even perform it in front of a friend before the real deal. 5. SPEAK WITH CONFIDENCE. There are a few speech-giving etiquette tips to keep in mind: Never toast before the host and stand up when you speak. Maintain eye contact with who you're toasting and the rest of your audience throughout, and project your voice, especially with a larger audience. After you've wrapped it up, smile, and make sure everyone has a drink. End with a clear invitation for people to join in, and you've successfully delivered a terrific toast. Cheers! Whether you're wishing newlyweds well, sending a co-worker off for retirement, or thanking guests for attending a holiday party, toasts are a great way to celebrate the events and people in your life. When your warm words are carefully crafted, they can mean a lot and have a lasting impact, even if you don't have a ton of time to speak. Follow our advice so your next toast will be one for the books. COMING HOME MAGAZINE 29