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Ceremony A little ceremonial savvy goes a long way during the exchange of rings and vows. This is how to stand out for all the right reasons: Dress to impress. Make sure you're dressed for the occasion. If the invitation doesn't already specify the dress code, plan to wear a nice outfit. There are generally accepted forms of dress for these affairs. For formal and black-tie optional events, women can get fancy, but should avoid anything too flashy or provocative. Men may choose a stylish suit or a tuxedo. At black-tie events, women are expected to wear elegant, floor-length gowns, while men are required to don tuxedos. Regardless of the dress code, head-to-toe white is a no-no! Come fashionably punctual. In the world of weddings, arriving on time is arriving late—and not fashionably so. Always assume the ceremony will start as scheduled and aim to arrive 15 to 30 minutes early. Late arrivals should request guidance from the ushers. Be smart with your phone. If it's a phone-free ceremony, power down and stow your mobile phone. If permitted, don't share photos online before the couple does, especially firsts and intimate shots. Invitations The art of the RSVP is among the most fundamental pillars of wedding guest decorum. While it may seem as simple as checking "yes" or "no," this small task packs a big impact. Here are a few basic rules of thumb: Respond on time. It's an unwritten rule and a non-negotiable: you must RSVP to a wedding invitation—even if you can't attend. Respond by the deadline or earlier, so the couple can plan for the seating chart and reception menu. And if no response card is included? Not to worry! Look for a QR code or link to the wedding website. Many couples now encourage digital RSVPs to save time and paper. Follow plus-one protocol. Adhering to plus-one protocol is a necessity. You'll know if you're allowed a plus-one; it'll be noted on the invitation. You should never request one, though, as this could put undue pressure on couples. Share dietary preferences. Don't forget to list any dietary needs, restrictions, and allergies in your RSVP. Knowing these details in advance helps the happy couple accommodate everyone comfortably and safely. Reception After the pair makes it official, more celebrations are (usually) yet to come! From touching toasts to first dances and festive fêtes, use these hacks to navigate the wedding reception with charm and poise: Follow the seating chart. Creating the seating chart is possibly the most stressful wedding planning task—like a political puzzle. The couple has spent countless hours balancing personalities and unique dynamics, so stick to the plan to prevent hiccups. Mind your Ps and Qs. Moderation is key. You don't want to be remembered for overindulging, particularly if there's an open bar. Enjoy the celebration, but keep your alcohol intake in check to remain polite, in control, and courteous of the couple and fellow guests. Gift with finesse. Gift-giving doesn't have to be complicated. Reference the couple's website and wedding registry for inspiration. Before going off-registry, consider a gift card to a great restaurant or a quick, romantic getaway. While it's customary to give a gift roughly equal to the cost of attendance, give what you can afford—it's the thought that counts. Be sure to include a heartfelt note or card with your best wishes for the couple. COMING HOME MAGAZINE 25